Skip the Script: Engagement Edition
Build more than your wedding.
Conversation cards that help you two agree on what matters, so planning gets easier and you grow closer doing it.
made by newlyweds who almost lost the plot
There’s a script out there for how your engagement is supposed to go. Stress about the budget. Fight about the guest list. Smile through the advice. But you can skip the script. You can make your engagement something else entirely: a season where you figure out how you two want to do life together. One where you grow closer, not farther apart.
So we make tools that help you do just that.
Why we’re the ones making this
We planned our own wedding and came out closer for it.
We’re Kristin & Kyle. When we got engaged, we froze. Things only clicked once we stopped following the script and talked about what we actually wanted first. These cards are those conversations.
Read our story
For the newly engaged
Get on the same page first.
Talk through what matters to you both before the to-do list takes over. Pull a couple of cards on a quiet night, or make a whole dinner date of it. There’s no winning and no right answers. Just the two of you, figuring it out.
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50+
couples interviewed
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couples rated every question
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11
rounds of rewrites
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115
draft questions cut to the final 52
for you two
or a couple you love
The stuff you're actually wondering
You probably have questions.
We're not engaged yet (or we're already married). Will it work for us?
The deck is built for the engagement season, because that's when these conversations get urgent, so most cards are written with a wedding on the calendar. But the questions underneath them, like money, family, and how you work as a team, matter at every stage.
Why should we take your advice?
Mostly, you're not. Our tools don't hand you our opinions about how to do your relationship. They surface the questions and conversations worth having, and you decide the answers. What we bring is what couples have learned the hard way. We've navigated our own engagement season, and before building our first product we talked with 50+ couples about what helped and what they wish they'd done sooner. We're not the experts on your relationship. We just know which conversations tend to matter most.
Does it make a good gift?
Yes. Pre-order it as a gift, add their address at checkout, and the full deck ships straight to them in January.
When does it ship?
January 2027. Pre-order now and download the 20-card starter pack right after checkout, so you can start before the box arrives.
psst… there’s more on the way.
Our conversation cards for engaged couples are just the start. Sign up for first looks at new tools and the occasional note from us.